- Share everything.
- Play fair.
- Don't hit people.
- Put things back where you found them.
- Clean up your own mess.
- Don't take things that aren't your.
- Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
- Wash your hands before you eat.
- Flush.
- Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
- Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
- Take a nap every afternoon.
- When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
- Be aware of wonder.
- Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody knows how or why, but we are all like that.
- Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
These are the words that were penned by Robert Fulghum in his 1990 book titled All I Really Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten. I've been thinking about this words the past few days or so as I mourn the loss of my kindergarten teacher, Mrs. Engel. Mrs. Engel was my very first teacher in school, and one of the ones I remember most fondly. While I don't have many specific memories of days in kindergarten or specific lessons taught, I remember her grace, her ease and her passion for the 5 year old children whose lives she would touch and change.
A few years after I left elementary school, Mrs. Engel and her family became members of the church I attended. This gave me the opportunity to once again get to know and be touched and inspired by Mrs. Engel. For years she would greet me each Sunday with a hug and smile that only an elementary school teacher could give. She was at church the first time I ever spoke publicly, the first time I ever provided leadership for a service and the first time I preached. She was there to celebrate my high-school graduation, college graduation, my engagement and my graduation from seminary.
To Mrs. Engel, I was and likely will always be that skinny little boy with the bowl hair cut who was in her class in 198whatever at Carrolton Oaks Elementary School. But to me, Darlene Engel was more than a kindergarten teacher, someone who helped me learn how to read and write, to tie my shoes and count to ten, she is a woman who strangely warmed my heart with her love, gentleness and kindness.
Mrs. Engle, I'll miss you.
Chris